Advice from those who had dissolution/ divorce with a kid.

Boom180

Active member
5 year marriage and a 2 1/2 year old. I made the biggest mistake in a marriage but we had issues outside of that. Have been doing everything including counseling and we had a talk tonight and she's leaving.
We are very civil and basically the only issue is the house and profits but I think we have come to an agreement.

Looking for advice on how to stay positive. I love this girl (even though I was stupid and deserve what I'm getting). Just feel lost right now. Obviously gonna train like an animal but what did you guys do to help with the anxiety and depression that goes along with it. I'm sure my kid will rebound but I'm heartbroken for her as well...

For those of you that are tempted in a relationship... don't fucking do it. I don't wish this hell on anyone (and we actually get along). Get the help you need or walk away.
 

nhbskull21

Well-known member
tread lightly. Save any communication. Get a lawyer. Shit can go from zero to 100 depending on a mood. Also depending on what her friends put in her head. Can go for civil to gimme everything real quick.
 

aalosio

Well-known member
5 year marriage and a 2 1/2 year old. I made the biggest mistake in a marriage but we had issues outside of that. Have been doing everything including counseling and we had a talk tonight and she's leaving.
We are very civil and basically the only issue is the house and profits but I think we have come to an agreement.

Looking for advice on how to stay positive. I love this girl (even though I was stupid and deserve what I'm getting). Just feel lost right now. Obviously gonna train like an animal but what did you guys do to help with the anxiety and depression that goes along with it. I'm sure my kid will rebound but I'm heartbroken for her as well...

For those of you that are tempted in a relationship... don't fucking do it. I don't wish this hell on anyone (and we actually get along). Get the help you need or walk away.
I was told from my mother as a 15-year-old after a sad breakup that time is the only thing that will heal it and she was absolutely right .
 

Boom180

Active member
That's what I'm getting... each day changes a but even though we aren't technically divorced.
The day she leaves and we go to 50 50 custody my heart will shatter again.
 
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